
Sister Arlene Kollar, S.S.C.
Born and raised in Jersey City, I received my values and ideas from my faith-filled parents who are of Polish and Slovak decent. I am the oldest of three children and I attended St. Anthony School and High School there. As a high school senior I was asked by two Felician Sisters who had taught me: “What do you want to do with your life? Do you hear the call?” In 1960, I answered yes by entering the Felician order at the age of 18. I earned a bachelor’s degree in education from Felician College, Lodi and later earned a master’s degree in Religious Education from Fordham University, the Bronx, N.Y., and a certificate in Pastoral Bereavement Counseling.
In my early education years I taught elementary and secondary-school levels in New Jersey, Maryland and Delaware. In 1968 I came to Prospect Park to teach at the former St. Paul School, where I later became principal. I also headed the parish’s religious education program for 5 years. From my start at St. Paul to 1975, I served as the diocesan Religious Education Office’s associate director of parish catechetics, while also teaching math at Pope John XXII Regional High School in Sparta.
In 1976 I left my beloved Felician Sisters. I was looking for a new model of living in the world today while maintaining the Franciscan religious charism of the Felicians. I don’t regret one moment as a Felician- the formation I received and the friendships I made. Later I went on to co-found the Society of the Sisters of the Church religious community.
In 1979 I had the wonderful opportunity to minister at St. Mary’s Parish, Pompton, Lakes as Pastoral Associate. After 24 years of ministry, I left in October of 2004 to come to Our Lady of Consolation as Pastoral Associate for outreach. Leaving St. Mary’s was a tough decision, but after 24 years there, it was time for a change. A discernment process – accompanied by prayer and consultation – brought me to Our Lady of Consolation.
My goals are to promote wellness in a holistic way with the parish and to become all that we can be in mind, body and spirit. Proverbs 29:18 says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” I want to articulate the vision and make the vision a reality through the model of stewardship. I believe the parish is the center of life in the community. It should offer life-giving opportunities for each person to know his or her faith. I love parish work and the people of OLC have a phenomenal spirit. I am truly blessed to be a part of the stewardship “way of life” here at OLC.
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